Love is enough: though the world be a-waning,
And the woods have no voice but the voice of complaining,
Though the skies be too dark for dim eyes to discover
The gold-cups and daisies fair blooming there under,
Though the hills be held shadows, and the sea a dark wonder,
And this day draw a veil over all deeds passed over,
Yet their hands shall not tremble, their feet shall not falter:
The void shall not weary, the fear shall not alter
These lips and these eyes of the loved and the lover.

- William Morris





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// Sunday, March 5



Sex or Money?

yesterday night i was at coffee bean with my family and friends.
and i was talking to my friend when suddenly this young couple caught my attention.
they weren't exactly a fantastic looking couple, pretty mediocre actually.. but yeah.
they caught my attention 'cos they were pretty much all over each other.
(meaning, the guy's hand was on her ass, and her hand was rubbing his back. try to picture..)

so they were lining up at the counter and the guy bought his drink.
(note: the girl didn't get anything)
then they settled down at a table not far from mine.
they were laughing and talking
(and obviously flirting with each other 'cos they were all touchy touchy)
and soon after the girl stood up with his wallet in her hand.
so i figured she wanted to get something to munch on now.
so off she went to the counter. and as she was talking to the staff member,
she was tiptoeing (and btw, she was wearing a pretty short skirt, and she has pretty nice legs.
oh, and ass too.) and i looked back at the guy who was waiting at the table.
and strangely, he kept on looking back at the girl again and again and again.
and i couldn't read his expression at all.. it was a cross between a smile.. and a frown..
ok. i really don't know what his face read.

but i can deduce 2 reasons why he kept on looking back at the girl.
1. he was totally checking her out 'cos i hafta admit, she really does have a pair of hot legs and her skirt was really really short.
2. he was totally checking if she was rumaging through his wallet/using too much of his cash.

so what can i say?
men are pretty much bastards.
alright, so maybe i shouldn't generalise or stereotype.
but seriously, this incident sums up pretty much what a guy's all about in a relationship.
sex or money?
ultimately, they look for either one in a relationship isn't it?

but then again, i know, i shouldn't be so harsh.
'cos there are nice guys out there who really truly love their partners.
but out of 10, tell me, how many guys wld stay forever faithful to their partners?
and when i say faithful, i mean no desire for another woman sexually or simply as a companion.
out of 10 married couples, i would boldly say 4 of 'em have cheated on their wives.
sad, but true.

but maybe we women are just practising double standards.
'cos there are women who are capable of being the philandering one too, i hafta admit.
but you can't blame 'em.
i mean, who did they learn it from?
obviously the best.
in other words, the very man himself.
so we shouldn't turn the tables around.
yes that's right.
i still stand by my stand.


scripted at 11:45 PM